I am a single mother of two kids looking for a real man. A man that is not afraid to go after what he wants. I am so tired of guys pursing me, asking me out on a date and then not having anything planned when the time comes. Looking to me to figure it out. It is so frustrating! You are the man so be the man. Where are the romantics Arent there any men out there that know how to treat a woman? To wine and dine, open doors for her, and most importantly not try to get laid immediately?